Constant Grind

The constant grind of the routine is starting have an adverse effect on our relationship.  My wife is always in pain and discomfort from the constant poking of the shots and resulting bruises that crop up the next day.  I'm always exhausted and busy from the constant, never-ending housework that needs to be done.  It's like we are just getting through every day, but we aren't enjoying it or each other.

There is no room or desire for romance it seems.  We should be enjoying this process and using it to grow closer together.  But there is nothing enjoyable about it.  It's hard, and it's exhausting.  I see the ease and carefreeness that CC and JC approach their own pregnancy.  They aren't stressed or worried about it, but that's probably because it's so much easier for them.  There are no twice-a-day shots.  There is no extra housework or extra pulling the load.  Nothing really changed in their lives.  I'm not saying it's better, because I really don't think they are better off than us from a relationship standpoint, but it's definitely easier.  Sometimes I would just like to relax and enjoy myself a little, instead of always being stuck in this rigid routine.