Monday, July 25, 2022

No Time for Hugs

My wife is sick this morning, which means I have to get Troy ready and take him to school. I knew this would happen last night, so I made a plan, mapping out how it would have to go for me to make it home for my first meeting of the day. Everything was going fine until I tried to lift Troy off the changing table to put his clothes on. He wrapped his little arms around my neck, climbed into my arms, and clung to me. When I tried to extricate myself from his grasp, he said, “I want a hug, dada.” All I could think about was how this wasn’t part of the plan. There was no time in the schedule for a hug.

Luckily, he wouldn’t take no for an answer, and he kept holding me. And luckily, I was smart enough to realize that nothing in the plan was more important than this beautiful moment right here with my son. So I took a deep breath, slowed down, and just hugged him back. I can’t believe I almost missed that, because I was in such a hurry. And in the end, he made it to school exactly when I had planned. I didn’t even need to worry. It seems God had put buffer time in the schedule for hugs.

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